Want to be Happy??? :)

March 23, 2007 at 1:48 am (Life, Me@myself, Smile)

 some text…worth reading n keeping in mind…i copied from Uncle Ajmal’s blog

To become happier, we either need to:

(a) Change the world,
or (b) Change our thinking.

It is easier to change our Thinking!


It is not the problem that is the issue,
but rather it is your attitude attending to the problem that is the problem.
It’s not what happens to you that determines your happiness.
It’s how you think about what happens to you!



  1. zios said,

    World would have been very different had all people thought to change their thinking but great ones like Jinnah thought otherwise and opted to change the world. 🙂

    Attitude; yes I think we mostly live in reactions rather than controllin life through our own action. We will be surprised to realize that we live a passive life rather than an active one:)

  2. Shakti Mehra said,

    I’ve always maintained that Problems are like knives, they either serve you or cut you, It depends on your attitude that you grab them by the handle or the blade.
    Once we change are thinking, small tradgedies might seem comedy.

  3. iabhopal said,

    You are a lovable child. Wish you the best. Work hard and leave the rest to Allah. Allah definitely takes care of everything.

  4. Shakti Mehra said,

    There’s one comment here since morning but it shows “no comments” on your homepage!!! Whats on earth this? Why is it showing “no comments”???

  5. esSJee said,

    because the commnet must be approved…

    and today i am out of city…hence i didnt get time the whole day long to check em

    Attitude does make a differnec and its difficult to bring about a change in our attitute…

  6. Shakti Mehra said,

    Ok, so you have enabled comment moderation! But whats the need of that? troubled by spams or controversial comments?

  7. saif said,

    Yes attitude make difference .. Its difficult to change attitude but not impossible..
    But the main thing is that why to change attitute… daily we come to know some new people.. kiss kiss kay liyay apna attitude change kareen gay..
    buhat hai tuu bas apnay love ones kay liyay ..
    and that is why i always say


    so Doc be on what u r ..


  8. Asma said,

    The attitude is something that matters the most … strongly agreed, and way to go – thnx for sharing :>

  9. esSJee said,

    Asma! thanks to uncle Ajmal..for posting the link …

    Saif! but at times a liitle change in attitude helps…really

  10. Saadie said,

    Attitude matters yes, but you cant just accept everything whats wrong around you with a smile, something needs to be done.

    Problems take a completely different perspective.

  11. esSJee said,

    i believe that its hardest thing to change what u have become after years…its really hard to change ur attitude fully..not impossible..but yes a little change is always easy…better than not changing at all..

  12. saif said,

    yeh .. kill ur EGO… 🙂

  13. esSJee said,

    I badly need it… i am working on it..and well..to some extent i have done it… but Saif… i think u should re do ur settings…i cant find ur link..though i get it in email when u commnet but not here… check em and edit em..

  14. Saadie said,

    a doc with an ego :O 😛

  15. esSJee said,

    Saadie! i am not just a doctor..i am human aswell… and to err is human… no?
    well alhamdulillah…i havnt yet seen my ego for my patients… i pray k kbi na ae…

  16. ayesha said,

    very well said 🙂

    take impossible as impossible or i m possible 🙂

    all about thinking and point of view :)!

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